Introduction

Many new mothers experience guilt and anxiety, even when doing everything right. Memory-keeping can be a gentle tool for reflection and reassurance.

Why Mom Guilt Is So Common

Unrealistic expectations, social media, and exhaustion contribute to guilt.

Memory-Keeping as Emotional Grounding

Parent Journaling or writing notes

Looking back helps parents see their effort, love, and growth.

Not About Perfection

Memories don’t need to be happy to be meaningful.

Creating a Private Space for Reflection

Parent Journaling or writing notes

Saving memories privately can reduce pressure and comparison.

A Gentle Reminder

If you’re struggling, support matters. Memory-keeping is not therapy, but it can be comforting.

The Days We Keep is designed to help parents save what matters β€” gently, privately, and without pressure.

The Days We Keep App Memories builder

FAQS

  1. Can memory keeping help with postpartum anxiety?

    While not a replacement for professional support, memory keeping can help mothers reflect and feel grounded.

  2. Why do so many mothers experience guilt?

    Social comparison, exhaustion, and unrealistic expectations contribute heavily to mom guilt.

  3. Should memory keeping be shared publicly?

    No. Keeping memories private can reduce pressure and allow for honest reflection.

  4. Do memories have to be happy to be meaningful?

    No. Honest memories, even difficult ones are often the most validating and healing.